Exam 1

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smashleybb  on February 21, 2012

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Marital Family Communication

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Exam 1

Family
Self-defined
Created/maintained through interaction
Voluntary and involuntary relationships
Boundaries
Evolves over time
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Family Self-defined
Created/maintained through interaction
Voluntary and involuntary relationships
Boundaries
Evolves over time
Family Types Families-of-Origin
Nuclear Families
Gay/Lesbian Families
Extended Families
Stepfamilies
Single-Parent Families
Couples (cohabitating or married)
Factors in Determining Stepfamily Types Parenting
Managing change
Separating the first and second marriages
Dealing with nonresidential parent
Modern Step Family Formed through divorce
Vulnerable to dissolution
Cultural changes
Changing gender roles
Unique type of marriage
Purpose: fill knowledge gaps
Neotraditionalist Stepfamily Challenge of stepfamily life: building satisfying marriage

Middle ground: shared values, beliefs, styles

Reasons it contributes to marital satisfaction and stability:
- Pride of joint authorship
- Zone of comfort
- Stabilizer
Matriarchal Stepfamily Parenting dominated by mother
- Monitor role
Lack cohesiveness
Vulnerable to change
- Change-embracers
Unique combination of personalities
Emphasize couple activities
Romantic Stepfamily Appear similar to neotraditionals
Characteristics
- Signature trait: unrealistic expectations
2 reasons for unrealistic expectations:
- strong allegiance to idea of family
- compensation factor
Ghostbusting Avoiding the ghosts of marriage past
- Active listening
- Open and encouraged disclosure
Parenting Task in Stepfamilies - Decide when to integrate the stepfather in the child's life
- Decide what type of relationship to build
- Child's attitude toward the nonresidential parent
- Child's gender
Family Stories - Family members as subjects
- Sequence of events
- Significance
- Performance
- Fluidity
- Meaning is negotiated
Functions of Family Stories - Connect past/present/future
- Build identity
- Teach lessons and morals
- Negotiate dialectical tensions
- Reflect developmental tasks
- Establish boundaries
Types of Family Stories - Courtship
- Birth
- Survival
Family Rituals - Recurring, patterned communication event
- Produce and reproduce family culture and identity
- Link generations together
Adoption Story Themes - Dialectical tensions
- Destiny
- Compelling connection
- Rescue
- Legitimacy of adoption
Systems Theory - Wholeness (Family as a system)
- Interdependence (How things will affect others)
- Hierarchy (Interpersonal subsystems - mom/dad. dad/son)
- Boundaries/Openness (Visible or Invisible)
- Calibration/Feedback (Response to change)
- Equifinality (Same goal achieved through various means)
Dialectics Ongoing tensions with contradictory impulses
Three common dialectical tensions in families:
- Novelty/Predictability
- Autonomy/Connection
- Openness/Protection
Attachment Theory - Explain/predict bonding and behavior
- Behavior in adulthood is based on availability/responsiveness of caregiver
- Stable patterns of attachment form
Attachment Styles (View of Self, View of Others) - Preoccupied (upper left)
- Fearful (lower left)
- Secure (upper right)
- Dismissive (lower right)
Social Exchange Theory Economic terms: costs and rewards
Worth of relationship= cost - rewards
Positive relationships
Negative relationships
Comparison level (CL)
Comparison level of alternatives (CLalt)
Expressing Intimacy - Declaration of commitment
- Positive absolute statements
- Private language
- Messages of comfort and support
- Playfulness
- Nonverbal intimacy and sexuality
- Self-disclosure
Marital Middle Ground Challenge of stepfamily life: building satisfying marriage
Middle Ground: shared values, beliefs, and styles
- Pride of joint authorship
- Zone of comfort
- Stabilizer

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