Christian Family Test
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Terms | Definitions |
|---|---|
 What are the three most important decisions in life? | 1.) Christ- salvation- an eternal relationship 2.) Companion- a permanent relationship 3.) Career- one or several temporary relationships |
| What are the two ways of dating? | 1.) Physical Attraction 2.) Spiritual Attention |
| What is the foundation of marriage? | Dating. |
| What is the foundation definitions of dating? | Spirit- Dating- Agape Soul- Engagement- Phileo Body- Marriage- Eros |
| What is pagan dating? | An activity that allows me to fulfill my lust outside the limits of Biblical guidelines. |
| What is defrauding? | arousing desires in another person that you cannot righteously satisfy. |
| What is Christian dating? | An activity that allows me to know and share qualities within Biblical guidelines. |
| What are the Purity in Dating standards? | Date only spiritual Christians(growing) Never be alone in a parked car Never be alone in a house Date mainly in groups Be alone together in public Avoid going steady(going steady breeds the idea of ownership) Avoid physical contact( if any doubt, don't) Don't defraud, Dress, talk, physical |
| List the five cures for Moral impurity. | Need the Spirit- Ephesians 3:16 Weed the spirit- remove spiritual hindrances Feed you spirit- Constant spiritual growth Heed the Spirit- Listen and obey prompting of Holy Spirit Lead your body |
| What are the benefits of reserving sex for marriage? | No guilt No fear No comparison Spiritual growth True happiness |
| What are some warning waves in dating? | Lack of peace Frequent arguments Too physical Don't talk Fear |
| What is the quality that corresponds with the question, "Is he/she saved?" ? | Love |
| What is the Negative result of the quality of love? | Spiritual Divorce |
| What is the quality of the question, "Does he/she genuinely desire to do God's will?" ? | Joy |
| What is the negative result of the quality of Joy? | Man: lack of spiritual leadership Women: lack of submission |
| What is the question that corresponds to Peace? | Does he/she get along with his/her parents? |
| What is the negative result of the quality of Peace? | Conflicts at home transfer into marriage. |
| What is the question that corresponds to Self-control? | Are we willing to not defraud each other? |
| What is the negative result of the quality of Self-control? | Guilt, fear, frustration, doubt of genuine love. |
| What is the question that corresponds to Patience? | Are we willing to wait for God's timing in our marriage? |
| What is the negative result of Patience? | Loss of service to the Lord. Quantity and/or quality. |
| What is the quality of the question, "Am I willing to yield my "right"to marry?"? | Meekness( Submission and Devotion to Christ) |
| What is the negative result of meekness? | Tension, worry, fear |
| Why was woman created? | Help meet The man needs a woman's help in every way- physically, intellectually, ect... |
| How does a woman help? | Companionship, Relationship, Child bearing, Home builder |
| What does it mean to "cleave"? | To cling, adhere to; to stick like glue; to be so welded together that the two cannot be separated without damage to both. |
| What does "one flesh" mean? | Physical, emotional, mental, spiritual oneness |
| What kind of relationship is marriage? | Covenant |
| What is the Hillel school of thought regarding divorce? | Liberal- divorce for any reason |
| What is the Shammai school of thought regarding divorce? | Conservative- divorce only for adultery |
| What is Moicheia? | The specific term for sexual unfaithfulness in marriage. |
| According to Paul's view on divorce, what are the only two options? | a.) Never be remarried b.) Be reconciled |
| What is God's response to divorce? | He hates it |
| What is the first basic need of a wife? | Needs stability and direction of a spiritual leader. |
| What is the second basic need of a wife? | She needs to know that she is meeting vital needs in your life and work that no other woman can meet. |
| What is the third basic need of a wife? | She needs to see and hear that you cherish her and that you delight in her as a person. |
| What is the fourth basic need of a wife? | She needs to know that you understand her by protecting her in areas of her limitations. |
| What is the fifth basic need of a wife? | she needs to know that you enjoy setting aside quality time for intimate conversation with her. |
| What is the sixth basic need of a wife? | she needs to know that you are aware of her presence even when your mind is on other matters. |
| What is the seventh basic need of a wife? | She needs to see that you are making investments in her life that will expand and fulfill her world. |
| What is the first basic need of a husband? | He needs a wife who respects him as a man. |
| What is the second basic need of a husband? | He needs a wife who accepts him as her leader and believes in his God given responsiblities. |
| What is the third basic need of a husband? | He needs a wife who will continue to develop inward and outward beauty. |
| What is the fourth basic need of a husband? | He needs a wife who can lovingly appeal to him when she thinks he is wrong. |
| What is the fifth basic need of a husband? | He needs quality time to be alone with himself and with the Lord. |
| What is the sixth basic need of a husband? | He needs a wife who is grateful for all he has done and is doing for her. |
| What is the seventh basic need of a husband? | He needs a wife who will be praised by other people for her character and her good works. |
| Define Marriage. | The union of two people(man and woman) joining together in matrimony. |
| Define Christian marriage. | One man and one woman promising to live together growing together in the Lord. ( picture of Christ and the church) |
| Define family | Group of persons living under one roof |
| Define Christian family | Base principles on the word of God. |
| How will your marriage be harmonious? | If it is centered around biblical principles |
| How can your home be harmonious? | If it is centered around biblical principles. |
| What is marriage? | A permanent relationship |
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