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agape: divine love; 'caritas;' used often in scripture to describe God's love for people
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agape: love devoted to the welfare of the other; self-less and unconditional
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anxious/ambivalent: frequently worrying about a partner's feelings; perceives a reluctance on the part of the partner to get close; so into the relationship they may frighten the partner away
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avoidant: somewhat uncomfortable about close relationships; unwilling to depend on others; reluctant to trust
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badeken: unveiling
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Berne: transactional analysis. ego states
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commitment: empty love
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companionate: intimacy + commitment
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consummate: combines intimacy, commitment, and passion
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domestic church: family's role as ministers
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empty: the stereotypical "just in it for the kids" marital relationship; low on intimacy and the passion is definitely gone
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eros: most love songs about this type of love
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eros: deep desire for union with a particular other; passionate; urge to procreate
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eros: fired by epithymia; usually what people have in mind when they say we're in love
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fatuous: "romeo and juliet" type of love; the hollywood or whirlwind romance
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fatuous: passion + commitment
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fourquerean: Chastity=strength. Chastity like athleticism
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Fromm: humans strive for interpersonal fusion.
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Fromm: symbiotic union is unhealthy
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Genesis: Men and Women are created before God and one another
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Genesis: "Whatever the man called each living creature that was its name."
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Genesis: Man and woman are the pinnacle of all creation
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Genesis: "For this reason, man shall leave his father and mother, cling to his wife and the two shall become one flesh."
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Genesis, Song of Songs, Paul: Man and wife become "one flesh" in marriage
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greeley: sexual arousal is best way to feel God
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halakha: jewish law
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hauerwas: you always marry the wrong person
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Hosea: "Go take a harlot's wife and harlot's children for the land fives itself to harlotry."
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Hosea: "So I bought her for 50 silver pieces and a homer and a lethech of barley."
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Hosea: Love between man and woman is like the relationship between God and Israel, a covenant
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infatuation: 2nd date, cant wait to see him, oh I hope he calls!
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infatuation: passion
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intimacy: liking
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J. R. R. Tolkien: Nearly all marriages, even the happy ones, are mistakes: in the sense that almost certainly both partners might be found more suitable mates.
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Jesus: Adultery of the heart
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Jesus: Moses only allowed divorce because of the hardness of you hearts but God did not plan for divorce
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Jesus: Marriage is forever
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orgiastic state: temporary high
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passionate and committed: god is _____ and _______
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Paul: "Be subordinate to one another out of reverence for Christ"
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Paul: "For the world as we know it is passing away."
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Paul: "Husbands, love your wives as Christ loves the church, and handed his body over for her"
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Paul: Jesus' death is THE model for the Christian marriage
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philia: commonality; friendship; the love shared between "homies"
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pikuach nefesh: save life
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projection: attract or repel us
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ritual: positions us for intimacy
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romantic: passion + intimacy
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sanford: projections, anima and animus
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secure: trusting and trustworthy in terms of relationships
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sex: sacrament par excellence
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sexually aroused: you are most like god when you are _______
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Song of Songs: Sex and sexuality are a gift and a blessing!
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Song of Songs: The power and beauty of sexual attraction is the best of life.
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Song of Songs: "How beautiful are your feet in sandals O prince's daughter..."
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Song of Songs: Never mentions God
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Song of Songs: "I said, I will climb the palm tree, I will take hold of it's branches."
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sternberg: triangle of intimacy, passion, and commitment
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storge: nurturing, protective, parental love
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Yada: to know