Honors Theology 3 Chapter 9
Terms in this set (60)
the ______ gives its own pattern to the family
God the Father and god the Son love each by ______
being open to the emergence of the Holy Spirit
Father and mother love each other by _______
being open to the gift and responsibility of children
_______ makes marriage
the consent which is exchanged on wedding day is a mutual ________
total gift of self and total acceptance of the other
the goods/meanings of marriage, as expressed by Pope Pius XI
sacramentum- the bond of marriage itself
the goods/meanings of marriage, as expressed by Pope Paul VI
the goods/meanings of marriage, as expressed by Pope John Paul II
total, human, fruitful, faithful
the goods of marriage are ______ from each other
the _____ between the goods is a good, and is equally important with other goods
harmony or integrity
five implications of the integral goodness of marriage
1) marriage is the subject of marital embrace (the martial embrace is an action of marriage)
2) sex expresses/says marriage deepens marriage
3) between 2 baptized joined in marriage, sex is the operation of a sacrament
4) the spiritual communion and bodily communion of the spouses are inseparable
5) our culture's view of sex as separate from marriage/relationship/family is among its greatest errors
any intention against _______ makes consent invalid
good of marriage or the harmony/between goods
good people with good intentions can honestly attempt marriage and yet ________
there is no such thing as an ________ child of God
"I want never to have children" really means...
"I do not give my fertility to you; and I do not accept your fertility"
"I want romance or sex with other people too" really means...
"I'm holding part of myself back so I can give that part to someone else"
"I plan to leave you eventually" really means...
"right now I'm not totally committed to you"
"I don't give my future"
any future condition makes consent ______
marriage necessarily includes an acceptance of the ______
in Fr. McCabe's opinion as a moralist, there is no _____ in marriage... but he could be wrong about this
since consent is total, all sexual actions of the couple must be open to all the _____
goods of marriage and harmony between the goods
the practical way to live out martial consent is called ______
theology of the body
sex is a bodily act which both _____ and ______ it
specifically, sex says and accomplishes "____" muttually between the spouses
I totally give myself to you, and I totally accept you
if a couple isn't married, then their sexual activity is a ___
the couple must be open to new life in order to be totally open to _____
God fully expects married couples to make wise use of the knowledge of this
the human fertility cycle
the first step in the practice of TOB/NFP
self-knowledge: spiritually (hopes, stresses, joys, challenges, etc.) and bodily (physiology)
the second step in the practice of TOB/NFP
communication, both spiritually (hopes, stresses, joys, challenges, etc.) and bodily (physiology)
the third step in the practice of TOB/NFP
power sharing (make decisions together, never imposing one's will on another able to defer to each other)
the fourth in the practice of TOB/NFP
periodic abstinence if necessary to space out birth of children for a serious reason (a serious reason means that a child at this time would cause a couple to either fail in grave duty or pose grave risk bodily, health of this child or mother)(some reasons may be permanent)
poverty can be a "serious reason" if it would cause the couple...
to fail to provide for the family
a wife with diabetes raises this kind of "serious reason"
grave risk to the bodily health of the mother
the possibility of down syndrome raises this kind of "serious reason"
grave risk to the bodily health of the child
with TOB/NFP, a marriage is happier and healthier because there is no _____
self deception, secret tension, avoiding of problems
with TOB/NFP, a child is always ______
welcome, never rejected
with TOB/NFP, a couple is mature and ready for challenges because _____
the couple is used to saying "no" to themselves and so the family is ready for it when life throws a "no" at them
with TOB/NFP, there is a greater tenderness and gratitude because _____
the passion goes into the littlest things and into the work of marriage sex is not selfish but generous
animals merely follow instinct, but humans can _____
share sex as an intelligent, free gift
contraception contains these two DI's and HA's
to have sex and to attempt that sex infertile
with contraception, there is no compelling, intrinsic reason to do these 6 things
1) grow in self knowledge
3) share decisions
4) abstain from sex from time to time
5) be grateful for marriage, sex and children
6) let an unexpected child live
widespread practice of contraception has led to these 6 things
1) martial infidelity
2) spousal abuse
3) child abuse
6) a basic breakdown in the ability of men and women to relate to each other and to trust each other
as marriage goes, so goes the _____ and _____
there is no ethically good substitute for _____
the cause of human fertilization must be...
it can be morally good to assist married sex to achieve pregnancy, but never to _____ sex
children are not a ______
one must never treat a person as a _____
means to an end
no one has a _____ to a child
this idea ignores the rights and humanity of the child and treats the child like a thing
we love kids, and pregnancy is a good goal
"you shall not kill" also means you shall not place another person in _____
some fertility procedures involve a _____ contingency plan
any environment other than the mother's fallopian tube is ______
hostile and dangerous place for fertilization and early growth
causing an embryo to form outside the fallopian tube imposes ______ on the child
danger of death
"selective reduction" is a euphemism for _____
some people will plan to kill ("screen out") embryos if they carry this genetic disease
"extra" "spare" embryos placed in frozen ____
are dead or dying
the presence of a bomb is ____ than the absence of a bomb
inherently more dangerous
AIH is wrong because...
married sex is replaced (the baby is caused by a lab tech) child is treated as a commodity
marriage exchange of vows
I, (name), take you, (name), to be my wife/husband. I promise to be true to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health, i will love you and honor you all the days of my life.
(name), take this ring as a sign of my love and fidelity, in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen.