Level 1: establish love maps
level 2: Fondness and admiration, love bank
Level 3: respond to bids for attention
Level 4: Develop the positive perspective, love bank
Level 5: Manage Conflict - 4 techniques for solving, softened startup, accept influence, repair and de-esculation, compromise
Level 6: Make life dreams and aspirations come true.
Level 7: Create shared meaning, Use we instead of I.