Marriage was an econ. benefit Strict behavior code Lover idealized lady Women were distant and aloof to lover.
Wrote "The Rules of Courtly Love"
Rules of Courtly love.
1. Marriage is not an excuse for not loving 2. Jealous prevents love from existing 3. No double love 4. Love increases or decreases 5. If you do against you wife, you get 0 pleasure 6. Boys must be mature to love 7. It is difficult to attain love makes it prizes. 8. Pale face in presence of Beloves 9. After spouse death, you get 2 yearts off 10. When you see a lover, your heart skips a beat. 11. New loves leaves for an old flame 12. Always think of your love.