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The Leadership Opportunity
Terms in this set (23)
The people pleasing leader tends to be
insecure; struggles with fear of man; may have had bad experience with conflict in the past
The people pleasing leader motto
Fire? what fire?
The people pleasing leader prefers to
deny, minimize, or run away from conflict
The people pleasing leader skilled at
pacifying people by telling them what they want to hear. Tends to avoid direct confontation
The people pleasing leader success means
keeping conflict hidden
The people pleasing leader Church typically
struggles against continual low-level conflict. Often a steady turnover of dissatisfied people
The people pleasing leader conflicts
such as unresolved offenses and resentments build up like tinder; smoldering fires can eventually burst into a flame
The controlling leader motto
fight fire with fire
The controlling leader tends to be
proud, self-absorbed, and forceful; successful at extinguishing opposition
The controlling leader prefers to
attack conflict head on; quick to speak, slow to listen
The controlling leader skilled at
behind the scenes maneuvering, recruiting allies, using political structures. tends to polarize people and trigger factions
The controlling leader success means
eliminating opposition, even if they leave the church deeply embittered
The controlling leader church typically
pressured to maintain appearance of unity even though it may be highly polarized beneath the surface; people often fearful of voicing differences
The controlling leader conflicts
may be suppressed for years, but many controlling leaders are eventually consumed by a conflict they could not control
Peacemaking Leader attitude
prays and recognizes the opportunity to minister to a man caught in sin
Peacemaking Leader action
Gets involved and enlists the help of others, if needed. Persists in reading out in love, even when pushed away.
Peacemaking Leader likely result
Lord willing, the man stays in the church, repents of sin, and is restored.
People-pleasing Leader attitude
Does not want to confront or offend; afraid to scare someone away.
People-pleasing leader action
Preaches a sermon series on marriage and purity, hoping the man gets the point.
People-pleasing leader likely result
the man stays in the church and remains in the sin.
Controlling leader attitude
willing to confront
Controlling leader action
Gives ultimatum by communicating "stop this now or you are out of here."
Controlling leader likely result
the man leaves the church and remains in his sin
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