The existential psychotherapist is most likely to refer the client with this chief complaint to a provider who uses a different therapeutic approach.
a. "I keep getting depressed lately. I have too much to do to be depressed. I need to know what I can do to get out of this funk and feel better so I can take care of business. Can you teach me?"
b. "I wake up every day and I wonder, 'Is this what life is; waking up every day and going through the motions? Am I raising these children so that they can continue this way, too?' I can't find the joy and purpose in life right now. I don't want to scare my spouse, he might think I'm suicidal, and I'm not. Not yet, anyway. I just need to talk to someone who will understand me, and help me find myself again."
c. "My husband has been sober for two months, and he told me to come see a therapist. I feel like he wants me to just be ok and trust him already, but I can't. I'm on high alert, looking for signs that he's using again, or going to hurt me again. I want to do my part to make the marriage work, so I'm here. But I'm not sure how much longer I can stay married to him."
d. "I failed a drug screen at work and they said I have to get 16 hours of therapy before I can return. I don't think I need therapy, but since I have to be here anyway I'm willing to talk to you and see where this goes."